You’ve found him. He’s found you. The seed of interest bloomed into so much more. Now it is love which rules your heart, mind, and soul. Everything in the world is perfect. Nothing will ever tear the two of you apart and you are ready to test that theory.
Spending twenty-four hours day in and day out for seven days will unearth your true self. Vacations while fun, entertaining and relaxing are also purveyors of truth. Who you are when no one is looking will undoubtedly be revealed to your new love. Are you ready for the vacation test?
Before you embark on your holiday take a moment to reflect on these following points.
Travelling- Planes, Trains, and Automobiles
How well do you travel? If you know that you are susceptible to motion sickness or you are a nervous flyer coming clean about which modes of transportation cause you stress is imperative. For example, if the thought of airplane turbulence has you running to the bathroom, then a flight to Hawaii as your inaugural vacation with your lover may not be the best choice.
You need to create and understand your budget. A trip to Paris sounds enticing, but if you are in the red, you may be better to scale down. Your aim is to have an amazing vacation with your partner. It’s not okay that you are worrying that upon your return you are in so much debt that you will need to take out a loan. In case you are wondering, you should split the travel costs.
Beach vs campground, B&B vs all inclusive, your vacation options are endless. While you are ready to get down and dirty with nature, your mate may desire indoor plumbing and room service. This is where it is important to comprise. Using this example, an excellent option would be to visit a Bed and Breakfast in wine country a delightful combination of rustic elegance.
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Sounds, Smells and Private Moments
This is the one area people choose not to think about when they are about to vacation with their new lover. The two of you will be situated in a small living space for numerous days. Your body will need to take care of natural functions. It is okay. It is normal. You are healthy. One recommendation would be to bring an air freshener on your trip. It will help remove any awkwardness.
Taking a vacation together is a major step. Your joint holiday has the ability to solidify your relationship and help it move to the next level. Discuss your fears, hopes, and desires regarding your pending trip. With you both on the same page, you should feel confident that your time away will be perfect.