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Don’t Speak In English – Talk Body Language

By Frederick Tuffour @freddatecrew · On October 18, 2013

For obvious reasons, I’m sure we’ve all heard some variation of the above phrase. Apparently, women speak in a unique vernacular, privy to a select class of men and it’s called––drum roll––body language. Never mind that you’ve mastered every conceivable dating rhetoric and have the tongue of a modern-day Casanova. The game has changed, and women are speaking far more than pedestrian English. I’m sure the unofficial statistic has a staggering 80-90% of interactions occurring at a non-verbal level, meaning your words don’t cook rice in the dating field. Yes, make no mistake, it’s not really what you say to a woman––it’s never been really been about what you say––but the manner in which you deliver those words that matters!

So while other single men resort to mundane conversational routines in hopes of striking up conversations with women, join me in taking up a new route. And it begins with focusing on your Tonality and Body language––the two most important facets of any conversation. It’s shocking the number of men who overlook this crucial aspect of interactions with women, for the sake of bravado––I believe there’s no greater dating tragedy.

It’s time to do away with these dating red flags and quietly exhibit your confidence through mere body gestures. Over the course of the next few weeks, I’ll be discussing the vantage points of displaying receptive body language and warding off any repulsive signals in your conversations with women. Also I’ll touch on interpreting her provocative and welcoming signs of approach. This is body language one-on-one and class is soon to be in session––please take a seat. From negative to positive body language and tonality, conversation-starters to getting her number, my next couple of entries will be singing these tunes all the way to her ears, till you have her body weak. Classes will be reconvened next week.

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Frederick Tuffour

Frederick Tuffour is a modern-dating specialist, who takes to this column to reach the single and professional young-adult demographic. A Behavioural Psychology Graduate from the University of Toronto, his anecdotal and well-founded take on modern-dating is documented in his upcoming book Date Crew: Your Winning Drive to Modern-Dating Success. Outside of the dating arena, he pens poetry and indulges in the ambient music scene. Visit his personal blog here.

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