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Sex 1

Another Hot Oral Sex Tip to Keep Her Coming Back for More

By Jessica O'Reilly @SexWithDrJess · On November 6, 2013

Sex expert, Beverly Cumming’s latest writing project,The Oral Sex Deck, is flying off the shelves as women and men alike take advantage of the portable nature of this educational card deck. (Each card offers step-by-step instructions on one side and an illustrative image/photo on the other). Whether you slip a card into his briefcase in the morning to let him know what you expect when he gets home or give her a choice between three moves/cards from at the dinner table in lieu of dessert, this card deck is designed to launch your sex life to the next level.

It is my pleasure to share one of my favourite techniques from The Oral Sex Deck with the good readers of Eligible Magazine. I present to you: The Sexual Heartbeat.

Does she want bigger, better orgasms that seem to go on forever? If so, the Sexual Heartbeat is a no-brainer! By mimicking the sensation of the contractions she experiences at orgasm, this technique not only produces powerful orgasms, but can prolong the climactic euphoria and promote multiples.

The Basics:

Pulse over her hot spots with your tongue and/or fingers as she approaches orgasm.

Lick by Lick:

Before trying this super-steamy finishing move, find out where your lover likes to be touched during orgasm. You can watch her finish herself off or simply ask her for a little guidance.

• Lick all around the outer edges of her vulva as you slide your middle finger in and out of her wet pussy.
• Alternate “screwing” her with your tongue and fingers licking up any wetness that drips down her legs.
• As her hips undulate with greater speed and intensity, it is likely a sign that climax is imminent and it’s time to bring on the Sexual Heartbeat. Tailor this move according to her specific hot spots by pressing and releasing every half-second. You have several options including:
• Cupping your entire hand or tongue around her vulva like a Jill-strap.
• Pressing the underside of your tongue against her clitoris.
• Curling your index and middle fingers inside of her and press up into her G-Spot on the upper vaginal wall.
• Using your tongue or fingers to press against her pucker (bum hole) as she moans and writhes with pleasure.
• As she comes, keep your pulsing consistent even as the speed and intensity of her contractions subside to promote longer, multiple experiences of orgasmic pleasure.

Bonus Sex Tip: Her perineum (the space between her vulva and butt) is connected to her clitoris and vagina through a series of nerve endings making it a hotbed of erotic energy. To double her pleasure, pulse gently over this soft patch of skin as you simultaneously create a sexual heartbeat over one of her other orgasmic hot spots.

The illustrative photo for The Sexual Heartbeat is just too hot for publication here, but you can check out The Oral Sex Deck here. Let the fun begin!

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Jessica O'Reilly

Dr. Jess (Jessica O’Reilly) is a sought-after sexologist with a PhD in human sexuality. She maintains a private practice in Toronto and travels the world to speak at events that promote healthy and deliciously pleasurable sex. From regular appearances on Cosmopolitan Television and Playboy TV to hosting retreats in the sunny Caribbean, she relishes in every moment! SexWithDrJess.com

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