Words Of Love

By Michael Stagliano @MichaelStag · On February 13, 2015

Readers,

Compared to my other monthly articles, this month’s will be a little more serious, but definitely worth the read. Hope it helps with you and yours.

If you haven’t heard of them yet, THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES are a breakdown of all the possible ways humans give and receive love… MASSIVELY important to know about if you are dating, in a relationship or married.

Typically men and women have 2-3 ways that they feel loved by a significant other. Let’s see if you can identify which one(s) apply to you?

Words of Affirmation – Receiving compliments, praise, adoration, respect, acknowledgement. Less is more – a barrage of loving words can be a bit much for both people…once a day is about right. : )

Acts of Service – When someone offers a helping hand: making dinner, a back rub, pick up the dry cleaning. Taking the time to think how you could help, even just asking goes a long way. This is a huge deal for most women.

Receiving Gifts – Big or small, taking time to buy or make something for your loved one will make them feel special. Doesn’t have to be diamonds or pearls…maybe a Starbucks gift card or flowers once a month?

Quality Time – Also known as face-time. Making sure you have time for just the two of you: date night, a walk together, watching a movie together. Give him/her your undivided attention.

Physical Touch – Holding hands, kissing, the stuff between the sheets… Almost all Men and Woman have PT as one of their love languages. This means more than just sex though- all things physical are part of this language.

Put simply, understanding what makes YOU feel loved, and how to best show love to the man/woman you are dating is essential to a healthy relationship, regardless of what stage it’s in.

While I wouldn’t recommend talking about love languages on a first date (yikes), there should be some pretty hard clues to what he/she likes or dislikes.

Most common for men – Words of Affirmation (respect) and Physical Touch.
Most common for women – Acts of Service and Quality Time.

Let’s be honest… we ALL feel loved when we are getting kissed or hugged…or more. Haha!

I strongly encourage you to have a talk with your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife… And then let me know how it goes in the comments below. : )

Hope 2015 is off to a good start! I turned 31 on the 4th!!! YIKES! I was 25 when I went on The Bachelorette…where does the time go?

Thanks for reading,

Michael Stagliano

Loved by fans all over the world for his blue-eyed soul vocals, freewheeling melodies, and earthy charm, singer, songwriter, and entertainer Michael Stagliano has enjoyed success and notoriety since breaking through in 2009 on ABC's reality television franchise, The Bachelorette. Although he didn't get the girl, Michael won the hearts of fans and returned on Bachelor Pad 2 (Summer 2011) only to have his heart crushed on national television yet again. Deciding it was a good time to share his passion for music and performing, Michael toured the continent showcasing his original acoustic music and in July 2013 released his self-titled debut EP album. Michael has instantly established himself as more than 'just another guy on television' and is recently engaged to the love of his life.

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